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UNIT 4 Blog:

Reflecting on Kinship and Exchange in my Everyday Life.

In our fast-paced modern lives, it's easy to overlook the intricate web of networks we navigate every day. Whether consciously or not, we are constantly engaged in exchanges within these networks, copying the kinship and exchange systems observed in lots of cultural contexts, such as those explored in Unit 4 of our studies. Reflecting on my own experiences, I've come to realize and think, the depth and significance of these networks in shaping my daily interactions and exchanges. With out overlooking the web of networks we navigate everyday or throughout the day in our busy lives and schedules. At the beginning of my networks are my family members—the foundational unit of my kinship. They provide me with so much support, love, and guidance, grounding me in a sense of belonging and finding my true identity. Within this familial network, exchanges go beyond mere material transactions. They give me emotional support, shared experiences, and a sense of communal responsibility. From my parents imparting wisdom gathered through years of lived experiences to my sibling’s offering camaraderie and laughter, each exchange strengthens the bonds that tie us together. From a young age me and my siblings had a great bond amongst each other as well as with our parents, we sometimes fought but nothing to bad. We always have each other’s backs and we have learned so much from our parents in the past. Beyond my immediate family, my extended family forms another layer of kinship. While not as intimately connected as my real family, they nonetheless play a significant role in my life. Through family gatherings, celebrations, and shared traditions, these relationships were sustained and nurtured. We start to build a not related family through years of spending time with friends and families other than our own. Exchanges within this network often revolve around cultural practices, where stories were shared, recipes exchanged, and customs upheld. These exchanges serve to reinforce a sense of cultural identity and heritage, grounding me in my roots while fostering a sense of belonging within a larger community. The way we can all relate to each other builds a stronger relationship with the people we choose to spend most our time with. For example, my niece’s friends that is always invited to family gatherings. Friendships constitute a vital aspect of my networks, skin to chosen skin. These relationships were characterized by mutual trust, shared interests, and emotional intimacy. From childhood friends who have stood the test of time to newer acquaintances who bring fresh perspectives, each connection enriches my life in unique ways. The more time I spend with them the better of a person I become because we have taught each other so valuable lessons of the years of meeting up and seeing each other. Exchanges within this network range from simple acts of kindness to profound conversations that challenge and inspire. Through laughter, tears, and shared experiences, these friendships contribute to my personal growth and well-being, shaping my worldview and values. Giving me different morals and new kind of strengths.