As a Xhosa girl, I am proud to be part of a vibrant culture that has shaped my beliefs, values, and worldview. Among the many teachings and beliefs that are endogenous to my ethnic group, two stand out as particularly influential in my life: Ubuntu and the importance of respect (Intlonipho).
Ubuntu, a philosophy that translates to ''humanity towards others'', is a fundamental teaching in Xhosa culture. It emphasizes our interconnectedness and the understanding that our individual humanity is inextricably linked to the humanity of others. This belief has taught me that my actions, words, and deeds have an impact on those around me and that I am part of a larger community, Ubuntu has instilled in me empathy compassion, and a sense of responsibility towards others.
Intlonipho/respect is a value that is deeply ingrained in Xhosa culture. It is about showing difference to those who have come before us, our elders, and those in positions of authority. This teaching has taught me the importance of humanity, obedience, and gratitude. I have learned to appreciate the wisdom and guidance of my elders and to treat others with kindness and consideration.