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I sit around thinking about the complex web of relationships that have been woven through my life, its somehow filled with diversity, and by the center of all of these networks lies all my family connections, the blueprint of which my social is world built by.

Having to live with my grandmother, aunt and mother through my entire life, provided me with a unique perspective regarding family bonds. My grandmother, who is filled with wisdom and life experiences, serves as a steady guiding force in my life. Her unconditional love and unwavering support are the things I love most about her.

Then there's the women that gave me life, my mother, the ''epitome of strength and resilience'' as my family would say. Despite facing her own challenges, one being a single mother, she has made sure that she is there for me, offering her words of encouragement and a shoulder to lean on. It is safe to say that our relationship has evolved over the years, from that of a dependent child to that of a friend.

And there was my aunt, the women who was like a second mother to me, she provided me with love and support, taught me how to bake and cook. The presence of my beloved aunt who played a significant role in shaping my values was one of the strongest pillars in my life. Despite my aunt's unfortunate passing due to cancer, her lessons on being generous and empathy will continue to live on, inspiring me to give graciously and receive with gratitude.

But beyond the walls of our home lies another dimension of my family network, my father and stepmother, who reside in another province. While physical distance may separate us, our bond remains strong, despite the heated arguments and misunderstanding each other, we try to make a conscious effort to stay connected through phone calls and if lucky visits once every 1 to 2 years.

Within the confines of moving to a completely new province for university, miles away from my family, this expanded my social network including, friends, classmates, lectures. These relationships are in some sort of way characterized by shared interests, mutual support, and exchanging ideas. From late night studies with my friends to breathtaking adventures, my friends are an essential part of my university experience, they provide laughter and a sense of belonging.

Looking at all my networks, I have realized the importance of each connection and the roles these connections play in shaping who I am, from unconditional love from my family to companionships of friends, these relationships provide me with a sense of belonging and support that improves my life in countless ways. Through these relationships/networks, I am constantly reminded of the great power that is possessed through human connections and the importance of sharing our lives with others.