everyone one grew up in different household where the certain values were installed to them. being the only child who eventually became daddy's girl since my father is the one who brought me up, he always taught me to be kind, respectful and also aways remember where i am from and who i am. i came from the Christian home, tradition wasn't something that we followed that strictly ,I'm talking about like Basotho tradition, one thing that i know is that i have to read the bible and interpret it my way not to let anyone tell me what it means or let them interpret it their way for me. and this helped me a lot because growing up we had like these different churches where you will sometimes ask yourself what's going on as you see them turn bible and the word into moneymaking machines. one more thing which was the big deal in my family was getting pregnant before marriage, if it was within their power    they were going to make sure that you abstain that's how big it was, but then at some point i think i thank them for that because seeing my age mates get pregnant while we were still at school and how some of them dropped out and others struggled to raise their kids while at school made me realize were they are coming from and i didn't want to see myself in that situation