THANDO DLAMINI

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THANDO DLAMINI

Reflecting Network of Kinship and Exchange Around Them.

19 May 2024, 14:14 Publicly Viewable

Reflecting on my network is when I allow myself to exercise to ponder the intricate web of relationship I have cultivated over time with my family, friends, housemate, classmates' connection, each person within my network bring a unique memory in my life.

As for my family members they have a special place in my network life as they give me so much support, love, caring. For them to be in my life means a lot to me and a gift from God, especially my mother she is everything to me. My family made me who I am today I really don't know what I will do without them, the bond that we have is unbreakable. I know that if I want something I will have to tell them because I will find it, they are my everything. I share a deep emotion bond with them, especially its family gendering or its holiday time we will have story time, laugh, happiness, more memories and enjoying each other company. If I want more advice in life, I know I know that I have to run to my mother more because she is the best.

Friends play a crucial role in my network as well we have been through challenging times and good times in life. As for my friends I find at high school grade 10 they have become my sisters, we shared memories, laugher and sadness at sometimes, but we go through that time together. Our bond is un separatable, our parent wanted to end our friends, but they have failed many times. We support and understand each other more even we have made mistakes in life, but we have made a promise to our self's that we become successful in life and make our parent proud of us one day. We tell each other if we are wrong or right every time. Even now we are far away from each other, but we still share that bond.

Housemate on the other hand they play important part of my network and life from past few months we know each other. It's like we know each other many years ago, we share everything together if you have a problem with anything you can tell them they we help you. We have many memories this past four months we know each other, and we will share more memories as the years goes on. We are not like other res at university we don't fight, steal each other food or cloths. We are always happy, and I wish I will have them till the end we are like brothers and sisters now. 

As for classmate we don't share that kind of bond because I am not good at making friends, I have made friends through group assignment only, but I pray that I make friends very soon. As for friends that I have find they have been kind and great to me.

Reflecting on my network has told me a lot about supporting, caring, loving and meaningful connections. I am grateful for the exchange of ideas, experiences and support that have improve my journey and enriches my life.