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Through Phases

14 Mar 2024, 18:39 Publicly Viewable

As I reflect on my experiences and social interactions, I am reminded of the intricate dance of life that we all partake in. Each interaction, each relationship, each moment of connection adds a new layer to the rich tapestry of our existence.One concept that has particularly resonated with me is Van Gennep's theory of rites of passage. This theory proposes that human life transitions can be understood in terms of three key phases: separation, liminality, and incorporation.

 

Having to leave home and start a life on my own felt like leaving behind the familiar and stepping into the unknown. Exhilarating yet daunting, but through adaptation came the intriguing and transformative stage of the rite of passage. And in time ,I have found myself in this liminal space during periods of self-discovery and personal growth- shedding old beliefs and embracing new perspectives, of questioning assumptions and redefining my outlook on life through social interactions and literature, giving me a sense of belonging.

 

Stepping into a new chapter of my life with clarity and purpose. Understanding that

experiences and social interactions have been shaped by the principles of rites of passage. From the initial separation from the familiar, to the transformative liminality phase, to the eventual incorporation into a new identity- me as a university student.

 

 And as I continue to navigate the complexities of life, I am grateful for the wisdom and insights that these rites of passage have provided me.