Sources which i have read concerning about how stereotypes are cooked, how judgements are created and how criticism was uprooted really uncovered my eyes about how life is experienced by us all as a whole. How life is experienced by every individual and how it is a complete diverse from what another is experiencing at simultaneous timelines.

I used to judge girls my age who got pregnant while still in high school .I always asked myself why they would choose to fall in that trap of stupidity while they would have focused on their books instead. I found it hard to understand how they would let themselves fall pregnant even after the strict teachings given by parents and mostly ,free preventative methods ,however they still chose to grab the opportunity. I continued with my judgements until one stranger pregnant lady my age out of nowhere approached me and started telling me how her uncle forced himself on her and got her pregnant then disappeared from the traces of the history of life. I remember that story was my awakening about the majority of things, that experiences of different lives could never be the same.

Yes there was absolutely someone who got pregnant due to their ignorance somewhere but it's not the same to the other one .Criticism obstructs us from identifying the actual truth about the lives of our surroundings at large. This corresponds to what Ngozi Adichie has stated ,''Consequences of the single story is that it robs people dignity'' (Ngozi:2020).

in conclusion having an ideal of your own assumptions and perspectives is dangerous because you tend to focus and believe on one outcome you have heard , about something or someone while you leave other possible outlives they might have on the wild.