THABI DITSWALO

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THABI DITSWALO

Unpacking my experience

22 May 2024, 10:23 Publicly Viewable

 

 

As I reflect on my ethnic background and upbringing, I realize that two teachings have profoundly influenced my worldview. Firstly, the importance of community and interconnectedness is deeply ingrained in my culture. I was taught that an individual's success is not solely their own, but also a reflection of their family and community's support and efforts. This belief has shaped my understanding of success and failure, leading me to prioritize collaboration and mutual support.

 

Secondly, respect for elders and tradition is deeply rooted in my ethnic group. I was taught to value the wisdom and experiences of those who came before me, and to honor customs and practices passed down through generations. This teaching has influenced my approach to decision-making and problem-solving, often seeking guidance from those with more life experience.

 

Sharing this with my classmate, I realized that the emphasis on community resonated with them, as they came from a similar collectivist culture. However, the importance placed on respecting elders and tradition was foreign to them, as their culture values individual autonomy and modernity. Our discussion revealed biases and prejudices, such as assuming that one approach is superior to the other. We critically reflected on how these teachings shape our worldviews and acknowledged the value in understanding diverse perspectives.

 

Through this exercise, I gained a deeper understanding of how my ethnic background influences my beliefs and biases. I recognize the importance of questioning and challenging my assumptions to foster empathy and inclusivity. By engaging in open discussions and actively listening to the experiences of others, I hope to broaden my worldview and embrace the complexities of human understanding.