Growing up one was told many endogenous beliefs but one that bought me till this far is that in my own house we a christians hence i believe that before one  proceeds with their daily duties the moment they wake up they must pray to thank God for another day of life. This kind of teaching has build me till this day because i am who i am today because of what i was thought back at home which does not mean that now that I'm no longer at home i should not adhere to it.

This kind of endogenous beliefs leads you to were you are actually heading and the second one is no matter how rich or blessed you might be never ever look down on others because you never know what tomorrow may bring. Therefore it is good to treat everyone that you came across the same rather than looking down on then at least assist them to become something in life, so that they will be able to build up their own reputation just like the way you did. Most especially life that person happens to be your sister of one of your family member do reach out to them.

All these kinds of beliefs when we look at them they actually build up to the character which we carry around people. 

My networking platform with different as a student that includes my family and friends.

As a student with my lectures with share a balanced reciprocate network because our lecture's  give us knowledge that is performed in our academics .As they hand out information on how to navigate with our studies they expect us to be able to write tests and quiz because they believe that they have explained everything in depth, in other ways what I'm saying is that  they give something and expect something in return  to show a bit of understanding between us and them.

My networking with my family is very simple and easy is what i call generalized as we exchange love and unity amongst each other and we are thought how to do the same with stranger. As well as community members the love and respect that I'm thought at home am expected to show it to other people outside my home as they say it takes a village to raise a child which means even my neighbours can also rectify me when it looks like I'm  losing respect.

With my friends we share what we call balanced and exchange networking and it goes like this when to one of my friends paid for our meal today as we went and we expect that next time as we go out one of us has to pay since on our previous outing someone paid. Even when i bought lunch this week next week i expect them to buy lunch of the same value as the one i bought for them or they pay me back when they have money which makes them to be obligated to me as they have to pay me back regardless of the excuses they can give ma at the end of the day when i want my money they must pay.

The relationship i share with my res mates is the one we exchange things , if one of my res mates is in need of something and i have it i can borrow them or give it to them which means that means that when I'm indeed of something and any of my res mates have it they can also give it to me. This shows the kind of relationship we have build with each other so that our parents wont feel much of that pressure which leads to us having to socialize a lot.

All this networking play a different role in my life with different people and they are also helpful to me also at the end of the day because it shows me people who i can actually rely on when I'm indeed of something. With networking you van do it with your  kinship and non-kinship people because the relationship which we have built it plays both ways.

Come spent  a life with me (sindisiwe mbele)

So i woke  up early and prepared for my lectures that will be taking place today ,after doing all that i ate my breakfast and i started my day. On my way to attend my classes, the road that i usually use on that day was traffic jamed like nobodies business which lead to people switching of their ignitions so that we will be able to see what's happening .When i came out of the car i started to walk towards were the whole traffic starts only to find out that the main cause of traffic it's because people are striking because they have spent close to two months without electricity and water.

When i was still standing i saw this other gentleman next to me which lead to us discussing this whole thing of how our government fails to do same certain things but always makes sure that we pay tax ,but  at the end of the day we end up asking ourselves what's the main purpose of paying text if we will be facing such problems as a country. While we were still on day then i came to realize that  this man is one person who is into politics because he got to explain some other things in a way that made me to view certain things in a different way.

After a while it then registered to me that no I'm suppose to be heading to my classes then i tried to take a u turn but I couldn't bring my side in doing that since I'm still new in this driving process , then the gentleman who was talking with offered to assist me then i quickly went to attend my morning classes. Later on that day i remembered that we will be having a new lecture of Public Admin since the other one was now moving to another country for some personal reasons, as i was now heading to attend my last class of the day that i got the biggest shock of my life. Only to find out that the guy that i was speaking to earlier on is my actually my new lecture of Public admin i just didn't see this one coming at all but like a lecture he is ,he was able to maintain social continuity to keep a healthy working environment forgetting what happened  early on today.

Therefore this whole event shows us how one has to keep on maintaining their levels of status in order for them to be respected according to their hierarchy levels, then later on gets back to their social life in one peace.

Is it really the land of the poor or its more of peoples views. Let me tell you more about how Mattole is viewed as a "Primitive society" in " single story" as it is a place that if viewed from far one will turn to think that people who live there are dying of hunger, with children who lack education because of the outer view. Whilst the truth of the story is that yes the place is full of shacks with a bit of high crime rate but that does not mean to say on the other side of Mattole the is no better place that is filled with comfort.

After all the stories i had about Mattole i decided to go there myself so i can get to see all those things that people say if they are the real truth, before i could creat othering and stereotypes about a place that i haven't being there by myself. when i reached the place i was amazed as to how people portrayed a very nice place witch is full of lands used to plant vegies with huge houses that could cater the whole of Queen Elizabeth's family, you can now image how huge those houses are. Just only because one saw the place while passing they just concluded that people who live there are dying of hunger and are probably drinking very dirty water.

All of this leads to the "Single story" of how quick people are always ready to pick up their side of the story based on something they only head about once and never took it upon them to go and find out the actual truth. All of this thought me to never judge a book by it's cover without knowing the morale of the story.