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Being an Afrikaans student, I have had many rich educational experiences that have moulded my personality and perspective. Here are the two most important things i have learned thus for.

The influence of language and cultural identity is among the most profound things i have ever learned. Having been raised in an Afrikaans household, I initially thought of Afrikaans as the language of my family and neighbourhood. But as my studies went on, I was able to recognise its greater significance. Language is more than just a means of communication; it is a vessel for culture, history and identity. Learning Afrikaans literature, poetry and history in school opened my eyes to the rich tapestry of stories and traditions that define my heritage. I discovered the works of prominent Afrikaans authors and poets who have captured the spirit and struggles of our people, and this connection to my cultural roots has given me a profound sense of pride and belonging.

Furthermore, in South Africa, speaking more than one language is a huge advantage. It has made it  possible for me to interact with a wider range of individuals and comprehend the various viewpoints found within our multicultural society. My respect for all South African cultures and my dedication to advancing inclusivity and respect for everyone have been cultivated by this appreciation of linguistic and cultural variety

One of the fundamental lessons of Afrikaans culture is the importance of family, or 'die gesin'. Families are the frequency seen as the foundation of both individual identity and social order. This idea emphasises the value of loyalty, family ties, and the support networks that families offer. I learned that the value of keeping tight family ties, showing respect for elders, and preserving family customs. Holidays, birthdays, and other significant occasions were often celebrated with considerate fervour among the family members. These occasions served as a reminder of the importance of making enduring memories and spending time with loved ones.

Family values have had a significant influence on my priorities and ideals. My sense of duty towards my family has become stronger as a result, and I'm determined keep these relationships strong. I also try to create and maintain strong, supportive connections in larger social networks, so this belief informs how I see my position there as well. This training relates to cooperative and team-orientated approach in my professional life. I understand the significance of establishing a welcoming atmosphere where people feel connected and appreciated. My desire to promote harmony and collaboration in other aspects of my life has been sparked by the strong sense of belonging that comes from having close family relationships.

These two lessons - the importance of family and language as an Afrikaans girl - has greatly influenced my outlook and are ingrained in Afrikaans ancestry. They direct my relationships, shape my morals, and shape how I live both in my private and public life. By adhering to these principles, I hope to strengthen family ties, make a positive impact on my community, and promote a culture that values unity and solidarity among people.  

In the vibrant networks of South African society, networks of kinship and exchange shape our day-to-day interactions and relationships. As i navigate through my own networks, i find myself immersed in the study of social dynamics and cultural values and will be engaging in my own networks of kinship and exchange within my family, friends and community. On a daily basis, i engage in a wide range of networks, each one representing a unique blend of family connections and friendships. In my family, the exchange of love, support and shared experiences forms the foundation of our kinship network. From daily conversations over meals to moments of celebration and comfort during times of conflict, these exchanges not only strenghten our family bond but also uphold cultural values and traditions that are passed down through generations. In my family my mother is the only breadwinner and also has the role of cleaning the house whenever me or my sister are not at home. My  sister also has certain roles in the household cleaning duties such as washing the dishes, mopping, and sweeping the floors whereas my role includes driving to go buy groceries or any necessities.

I also engage in a network of friendships that reaches beyond my immediate family. Capturing the core of social exchange and interaction, these friendships are based on trust, mutuality, and shared interest. One of said friendships is my friendship with Hannelie, She has been my best friend or the last two years and is the foundation on which i fall back onto in times of crisis and sadness. Whether it is lending a listening ear to a friend in need or offering assistance in times of crisis, These exchanges reinforce the interconnected relationships of individuals within our society.

Moreover, my daily interactions within broader social circles shed light on the intricate networks of kinship and exchange that define South African communities. From hostel or university gatherings to social gathering such as going out to clubs or for coffee, these spaces serve as platforms for the exchange of resources, knowledge, and cultural practice. These exchanges provide invaluable insights into the social structures, power dynamics, and cultural identities that South African society

As i reflect on my own experiences within these networks, i am reminded of the profound insights that the readings of this unit offer into the complexities of human relationships and social dynamics. Through the lens of kinship and exchange, i gain a deeper understanding of the interconnectedness of individuals within South African society and the ways in which these networks shape our daily lives

In conclusion, networks of kinship and exchange in a South African context serve as a lens through which i can explore the intricate network of social relationships, cultural values and community dynamics. By reflecting on the networks that i move thorough every day and the exchanges that occur within them, I embark in a personal journey that enriches my understanding of the world around me and reaffirms the importance of human connection in shaping our shared experiences

Day in my life.
Today I had gone to the Zoo. The vibrant colors of nature, the lively sounds and the smell of pure freedom immediately caught my attention. The air was filled with excitement and anticipation as I embarked on a journey through the animal kingdom.

The pure joy on toddlers faces as they see the  monkeys swinging from branch to branch. The monkeys playful antics brought pure joy to my face, as it reminded me of my childhood.
As we moved to the lions den, the whole group went quiet, not because of fear but because of the mischievous sparkle in the Alpha lions eyes as the zoo keeper approached with his meal. We were all patiently waiting for the zoo keeper to throw a massive pink chicken towards the mouth of the lion.
I had never seen anything like this, as the chicken flew into the den nine lions ran towards the glass screen with the hopes of being lucky enough to engorge this meal.
For our last stop the tour guide took us on a trip to the ice cold depths of Antartica. Of course by that I mean the penguins. Although this was not my first time seeing penguins, it was still such an amazing experience to be able to see.

After my encounter with the animals I had a few questions about the habitat of penguins and the recent studies that have showed indications of extinction. I had asked our tour guide how they are able to keep up with the environment of these high maintenance animals as well as the concern I had over how they are able to keep up with the constant change in climate.  

I had left the zoo in the afternoon to allow myself to spend time with my friends. We had decided that since it is a sunny day that we should pack a picnic basket and have a picnic under the big oak tree. We each had to choose a color and base our food items on the color you choose.  
I had to bring red, thus I brought some sweet strawberries, dark red cherries and some Asian drinks. My close friend had chosen white. She brought a variety of sushi rolls, each bursting with flavors that danced on my taste buds. The smooth texture of fish, the subtle crunch of the vegetables, and the tangy notes of soy sauce created a symphony of tastes that delighted my senses. My last friend had to bring brown. Although we fest of salty delectables we had some moist chocolate cake sluthered in dark chocolate frosting , the mix of sweet and bitter was the perfect way to end our picnic off.

I was stuffed after the picnic and it was time for me to head home and end the day off with some University work. I had finished a few tasks and finished my night off with a good book.
I was lucky enough to experience the animal kingdom and spend time with my friends all in one day.

By creating assumptions about people,races,cultures etc we as society are enforcing segregation and excluding people hence we are creating “otherness”.Upon consideration of my own assumptions and stereotypes of people , i have realised that they could hold both positive and negative impacts.In reference to the parodic examples in the readings i have learned that stigmas can lead to the oversimplification and generalisation of people in society. Assumptions,stereotypes and stigmas can construct different identities and representations of people which takes away from their original identities such as when people stereotype asians for being very intelligent when in fact asians can have different intelligence levels as intelligence is not based on race but rather genes. This stereotype of asians is positive but i have realised that even when stereotypes seem positive to people it can still have a negative effect on the people that are stereotyped.

Exoticization is a very accurate example of stereotypical and misinformed generalisation of people and their cultures,traditions and values.One example of exoticization is the use of Native American dress as costumes for non-native performers or the use of Japanese kimono,makeup or movements to identify performers as asian when in fact they are not and thus this behaviour is in conjunction with racist portrayals of Asian and Native American people.In conclusion we should rather embrace originality to create a more positive society instead of a society where people have assumptions and stereotype others.