1. Botho: The essence of humanity

While I was growing up my parents taught me that I should have "Botho", Botho is a Tswana term meaning "humanity", or I am because of we are. Besides at home humanity was also taught at school through folktales, stories, proverbs, and the everyday interactions within my community. Botho focus attention on the need to treat others with kindness and respect. Everyone should be respected because we all need each other in this world. There is a phrase in Tswana culture that says "Motho Ke Motho Ka Batho Ba Bangwe" (a person is a person through other people"), this simply means that individuals derive their identity, humanity, and existence from their relationships and interactions with others.

Accepting principle of Botho has completely shaped the way I see the world/worldview. It has implanted in me in terms of social responsibility and a commitment to fostering harmony and solidarity within my community and beyond. Botho reminds us that whatever we do have consequences and effects on people around us and ourselves too.

2. Respect For Elders and Ancestors

well, I was taught to have respect for elders and those who came before us who are the ancestors. Through stories, rituals, and everyday interactions, younger generations are taught to listen to and learn from their elders, understanding that they hold valuable knowledge and experiences that can guide and enrich their lives. I was taught to mind the language and the tone I use when speaking to elders, I can't speak with them with the language from the streets because it will be a disrespect to them. We were also taught not to speak ill or bad about the people who passed away as a sign or respect, and it also involves showing reverence to them, acknowledging their wisdom, sacrifices, and contributions to the community.