AKHONA MADLALA

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AKHONA MADLALA

Reflecting on my own assumption and otherness

22 May 2024, 16:20 Publicly Viewable

Learning activity 1

As I delved into the parodic examples of Wainana and Miner, and the thought-provoking TEDTalks by Ngozi and Bart-Williams, I was forced to confront my own stereotypes and stigmatizations. I realized that I, too, have been guilty of perpetuating "otherness" through my language and thoughts.

One of my biggest takeaways was the understanding that my assumptions, both positive and negative, can be harmful and limiting. I noticed that I often exoticize cultures and communities I'm not familiar with, romanticizing their experiences and oversimplifying their complexities. This realization made me uncomfortable, as I saw how my words and thoughts could contribute to the very "othering" I strive to challenge.

Moreover, I acknowledged that my language and beliefs can perpetuate stereotypes, even if unintentionally. I recognized that my privilege and biases can lead me to misrepresent or distort others' experiences, perpetuating harmful narratives. This self-awareness was a crucial step in my growth, as it allowed me to begin dismantling my own biases and assumptions.

Through this reflection, I've learned the importance of mindful language and the need to challenge my own beliefs and assumptions. I strive to be more aware of my privilege and biases, actively seeking out diverse perspectives and experiences to broaden my understanding. By doing so, I hope to contribute to a more inclusive and empathetic environment, where "otherness" is celebrated and valued.

In conclusion, this learning activity has been a transformative experience, forcing me to confront my own role in perpetuating "otherness." I'm grateful for the opportunity to reflect on my assumptions and biases, and I'm committed to continued growth and self-awareness.

How i reflect on my networks

22 May 2024, 00:32 Publicly Viewable

Learning activity 3

As I reflect on the networks I move through every day, I realize that I am part of a complex web of relationships that shape my life in profound ways. My networks are comprised of family, friends and community members, each playing a significant role in my daily existence.

My family network is my primary source of support and love. We exchange emotional support, financial resources, and practical help, such as childcare and household responsibilities. Our relationships are built on trust, mutual respect, and a deep understanding of one another.

My friend network is a diverse and vibrant group of individuals who share common interests, values, and experiences. We gossip here and there, exchange ideas, laughter, and encouragement, providing a sense of belonging and connection. We support each other's passions and pursuits, celebrating each other's successes and offering comfort in times of need. And also motivate each other.

Lastly, my community network includes neighbors, acquaintances, and strangers who become familiar faces in my daily routine. We exchange smiles, greetings, and small talk, creating a sense of belonging and connection to the place I call home.

Through these networks, I exchange not only tangible resources like money, food, and shelter but also intangible ones like love, support, and knowledge. I receive emotional support from my family, creative inspiration from my friends, professional growth from my colleagues, and a sense of community from my neighbors.

In return, I offer my own unique skills, perspectives, and experiences, contributing to the richness and diversity of these networks. I realize that my networks are not just a collection of individuals but a web of relationships that require nurturing, reciprocity, and empathy.

As I reflect on my networks, I am reminded of the importance of building and maintaining meaningful relationships in our lives. By recognizing the value of these exchanges, I am committed to cultivating stronger, more empathetic connections with those around me, acknowledging the intricate networks that shape my daily life.

My experiences and social experiences throughout my day

20 May 2024, 21:27 Publicly Viewable

Learning activity 2

What a long night that I had. Another day another dollar. My day began with the gentle warmth of sunlight peeking through my window, Accompanied by sweet chirping of birds outside. As i woke up, the soft rustle of my sheets and the creaky floor beneath my feet signaled the start of my daily ritual.

As I ventured out, the vibrant colors of nature struck me. Th e emerald, green grass, the cerulean sky and the golden hues of sunlight dancing through the trees. The gentle breeze carried the whispers of passersby, creating a sense of community and connection. 

I then got ready for my class. I was so excited that I will be meeting new people and create memories that we will cherish forever. I know sometimes I'm not good in socializing, but I thought why I shouldn't give it a try? ha-ha(laughs). Later, I met up with friends at a cozy cafeteria where we shared laughter and stories over steaming cups of juice. The sound of clinking glasses and the murmur of conversation created a sense of warmth and belonging

Throughout the day I encountered a tapestry of textures, and the softness of my friends embrace. Each interaction left an indelible mark on my senses, weaving a rich narrative of human experience. After my class, I returned to my residence, where the comforting aroma of home cooked meal filled the air. I guess I'm blessed by having a roommate who cooks for us. She really enjoys making a home cooked meal. I then savored each bite, relishing the flavors and textures. As the evening drew to a close, I settled into my Favorite armchair with a captivating book, losing myself in the words and worlds within.

As the night wore on, the soft glow of the lamp and the gentle rustling of the pages lulled me into a peaceful slumber, ready to embark on another sensory journey tomorrow. Throughout the day I encountered a kaleidoscope of sensory experiences the feel of soft fabrics, the taste of rich flavors, and the sound of vibrant melodies. And that's the end of my daily experiences.

 

 

 

 

Learning activity 4

18 May 2024, 19:20 Publicly Viewable

Unpacking My Assumptions: A Reflective Journey

As I delved into the works of Wainana, Miner, Ngozi, and Bart-Williams, I was struck by the power of language in shaping our perceptions and creating "otherness". Through their parodic examples and thought-provoking talks, I began to reflect on my own stereotypes and stigmatizations. I realized that I, too, have been guilty of perpetuating "otherness" through my assumptions and biases.

One significant insight I gained was the danger of a single story. I often found myself making sweeping generalizations about cultures and communities based on limited exposure or information. Ngozi's TEDTalk resonated deeply, as I recognized the harm caused by reducing complex individuals to a single narrative. I understood that my assumptions were not only inaccurate but also unfair, as they denied the diversity and richness of experiences within a group.

Moreover, I acknowledged my tendency to exoticize and romanticize certain cultures, while stigmatizing others. Wainana's satirical piece on writing about Africa exposed my own biases and the absurdity of reducing a continent to simplistic, stereotypical portrayals. Miner's work on the Nacirema further highlighted the absurdity of our assumptions, as I realized that even the most mundane practices can be distorted and misrepresented.

Through this reflection, I have come to understand that my assumptions and biases are not harmless. They contribute to the creation of "otherness", perpetuating harmful stereotypes and stigmatizations. I have learned the importance of seeking diverse perspectives, challenging my own beliefs, and embracing complexity. As I move forward, I strive to be more mindful of my language and actions, recognizing the power they hold in shaping our understanding of each other.