As a member of the Xhosa ethnic group, my worldview has been deeply shaped by two fundamental teachings: Ubuntu and Ukuziphatha. Deeply rooted in our culture, these principles provide a unique lens through which I view the world and navigate my interactions with others.

Ubuntu

The concept of Ubuntu is perhaps the best known part of the Xhosa philosophy. Often translated as "I am because we are", Ubuntu embodies the essence of community and interconnectedness. This teaching emphasizes the importance of community, mutual respect and common humanity. Growing up, I was constantly reminded of Ubuntu, both subtly and overtly. It is not just a word, but a way of life that dictates our communication and relationships. In my family, Ubuntu meant that personal achievements were always celebrated as community victories. When my older brother graduated from university and found a job, it wasn't just his success; it was a victory for the whole family, a demonstration of joint effort and support. This teaching greatly influenced my world view and instilled a deep sense of empathy and responsibility towards others. In professional settings, I want to contribute to value teamwork over individual recognition. Ubuntu promotes a way of thinking that sees the connection between all people and encourages action that not only elevates oneself, but also the community as a whole. It also shaped my understanding of leadership; a good leader in the spirit of Ubuntu serves people and prioritizes their well-being.

Ukuziphatha 

Ukuziphatha or Ukuzithwala, translated as "carry yourself with dignity", is another core Xhosa belief that has deeply influenced my view on life as a young girl. This principle emphasizes the importance of self-respect, personal integrity and presence in society. It teaches that human dignity lies not only in appearance, but also in inner strength and moral integrity. I was taught from a young age that every action I take should reflect my inherent dignity and respect for myself and others, especially as a young girl. It meant respectful behavior, honesty and respect for parents and peers. Ukuziphatha instilled in me a strong sense of self-worth and self-confidence based on the understanding that true respect comes from within. This belief shaped my approach to various life situations. In moments of difficulty, I draw strength from Ukuziphatha, reminding myself of my inner worth and the importance of maintaining dignity despite external circumstances. In social interactions, it guides me to treat everyone with respect and to recognize that each person has their own value.

The interaction of Ubuntu and Ukuziphatha creates a balanced framework for a fulfilling and ethical life. Ubuntu emphasizes our responsibilities to others and to the common good, but Ukuziphatha ensures that we do so respectfully and personally. Together, these teachings have fostered a worldview that values ​​community, empathy, dignity, and self-respect. I try to apply these principles in my daily life. I try to practice Ubuntu at school, in the community or in the family by being helpful, cooperative and empathetic. At the same time, I follow Ukuziphatha in maintaining my dignity, acting honestly and being respectful to myself, my body and others.

In conclusion, the teachings of Ubuntu and Ukuziphatha are not simply cultural artifacts, but living principles that guide my actions and many of other xhosa young girls out there. They have profoundly shaped my worldview, influencing how I see myself and my place in the world. As I navigate life's challenges and opportunities, these teachings remain a constant source of strength and guidance, reminding me of the power of community and the importance of self-respect and dignity.