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Discovering My roots: Important lessons in my culture

20 May 2024, 10:29 Publicly Viewable


In this blog post, I'm sharing two important beliefs from my culture that have really shaped how I think and interact with others. These beliefs have been passed down from my ancestors and are still really important to my community today as a (Tswana woman).

Lesson 1: Ubuntu (We're All Connected)

Ubuntu is a concept from my culture that means "I am because we are." It's all about how we're all connected and how our individual actions affect those around us. Growing up, I saw how this belief brought people together and made us care for each other. It taught me to think about how my actions might impact others and to try to make a positive difference in my community. This belief has really helped me become a more thoughtful and caring person.

Lesson 2: The Power of Stories

Another important belief in my culture is the importance of sharing stories and passing down wisdom from one generation to the next. Our ancestors taught us valuable lessons and shared our history through stories, proverbs, and songs. I loved listening to these stories when I was younger, and they helped me connect with my culture and learn important life lessons. This love for stories has also helped me appreciate different perspectives and understand the world in a deeper way.

Conclusion

These two beliefs from my culture have really shaped who I am today. Ubuntu has taught me about the importance of community and empathy, while the focus on storytelling has helped me appreciate my cultural heritage and understand different viewpoints. These beliefs continue to guide me and help me stay connected to my roots.

Networks of Daily Life:

6 Apr 2024, 19:27 Publicly Viewable

In our daily lives, we navigate through intricate webs of social connections that form our personal networks. These networks comprise various individuals, groups, and institutions, with whom we interact and exchange different resources, such as information, support, or material goods. Reflecting on my own networks, I recognize three primary categories: family, friends, and professional contacts.

Starting with family, my kinship network includes immediate and extended family members. We share a strong bond rooted in our shared history, values, and experiences. Our exchanges are often emotional and material, providing each other with love, emotional support, and tangible assistance in times of need. For instance, when a family member faces financial difficulties, others may step in to offer financial support or advice. This reciprocal exchange strengthens our familial bonds and ensures the collective well-being of our kin group.

My friendship networks consist of close friends, acquaintances, and friends of friends. We share common interests, hobbies, or experiences and are often connected through social media platforms. In this network, exchanges are diverse, ranging from information sharing, to practical help, and emotional support. For example, we exchange recommendations for movies, restaurants, or travel destinations. We also provide encouragement and advice during life's ups and downs. These exchanges deepen our friendships and foster a sense of belonging.

My professional networks encompass colleagues, mentors, and industry contacts. We share professional experiences, industry knowledge, and career aspirations. The exchanges within this network are primarily focused on information and opportunity sharing. For example, we may collaborate on projects, discuss industry trends, or exchange advice on career advancement. These exchanges enhance our professional development, promote career growth, and facilitate the collective success of the network.

In all these networks, I play different roles, such as a son, a friend, or a colleague, and my relationships and exchanges are shaped by the norms and values governing each network. For instance, my interactions with family members are often informal and guided by familial expectations, while my exchanges with professional contacts are more formal and shaped by work ethics.

As I reflect on my networks, I appreciate the richness and complexity of the social exchanges they facilitate. They provide me with essential resources, help me navigate life's challenges, and contribute to my personal and professional development. Recognising the importance of these networks, I strive to foster positive relationships, participate in meaningful exchanges, and contribute to the collective well-being of my networks.

Besides my core networks of family, friends, and professional contacts, I'm actively involved in other groups that share similar interests or objectives. For example, I'm part of a local book club where we exchange literary recommendations and engage in discussions, enhancing our reading experiences and building a sense of camaraderie among fellow book lovers.Additionally, I participate in networks focused on volunteering and community service, connecting me with like-minded individuals dedicated to improving our community. Through these connections, we collaborate on addressing local issues such as poverty, environmental concerns, and educational disparities.Another important network in my life revolves around health and wellness, where I interact with gym buddies.In summary, our lives are intertwined with various networks, each serving distinct purposes and aiding in our personal growth. By valuing and actively participating in these networks, we can leverage their potential to enhance our lives, foster support, and cultivate a sense of community.

Networks of Daily Life:

6 Apr 2024, 19:27 Publicly Viewable

In our daily lives, we navigate through intricate webs of social connections that form our personal networks. These networks comprise various individuals, groups, and institutions, with whom we interact and exchange different resources, such as information, support, or material goods. Reflecting on my own networks, I recognize three primary categories: family, friends, and professional contacts.

Starting with family, my kinship network includes immediate and extended family members. We share a strong bond rooted in our shared history, values, and experiences. Our exchanges are often emotional and material, providing each other with love, emotional support, and tangible assistance in times of need. For instance, when a family member faces financial difficulties, others may step in to offer financial support or advice. This reciprocal exchange strengthens our familial bonds and ensures the collective well-being of our kin group.

My friendship networks consist of close friends, acquaintances, and friends of friends. We share common interests, hobbies, or experiences and are often connected through social media platforms. In this network, exchanges are diverse, ranging from information sharing, to practical help, and emotional support. For example, we exchange recommendations for movies, restaurants, or travel destinations. We also provide encouragement and advice during life's ups and downs. These exchanges deepen our friendships and foster a sense of belonging.

My professional networks encompass colleagues, mentors, and industry contacts. We share professional experiences, industry knowledge, and career aspirations. The exchanges within this network are primarily focused on information and opportunity sharing. For example, we may collaborate on projects, discuss industry trends, or exchange advice on career advancement. These exchanges enhance our professional development, promote career growth, and facilitate the collective success of the network.

In all these networks, I play different roles, such as a son, a friend, or a colleague, and my relationships and exchanges are shaped by the norms and values governing each network. For instance, my interactions with family members are often informal and guided by familial expectations, while my exchanges with professional contacts are more formal and shaped by work ethics.

As I reflect on my networks, I appreciate the richness and complexity of the social exchanges they facilitate. They provide me with essential resources, help me navigate life's challenges, and contribute to my personal and professional development. Recognising the importance of these networks, I strive to foster positive relationships, participate in meaningful exchanges, and contribute to the collective well-being of my networks.

Besides my core networks of family, friends, and professional contacts, I'm actively involved in other groups that share similar interests or objectives. For example, I'm part of a local book club where we exchange literary recommendations and engage in discussions, enhancing our reading experiences and building a sense of camaraderie among fellow book lovers.Additionally, I participate in networks focused on volunteering and community service, connecting me with like-minded individuals dedicated to improving our community. Through these connections, we collaborate on addressing local issues such as poverty, environmental concerns, and educational disparities.Another important network in my life revolves around health and wellness, where I interact with gym buddies.In summary, our lives are intertwined with various networks, each serving distinct purposes and aiding in our personal growth. By valuing and actively participating in these networks, we can leverage their potential to enhance our lives, foster support, and cultivate a sense of community.