KE SABALELE

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KE SABALELE

Church in my home.

17 May 2024, 19:59 Publicly Viewable

I specifically belong in a black South African ethnic group, and I grow in a home whereby we would go to church every Sunday and all of us would were long dresses whether you are a male or female. If we ask our grandparents, they will say that's a way of representing the body of Christ and it's an appropriate dress code in front of the Lord.  We got used to that and every Sunday since it's the sabbath day according to us we were not supposed to do anything or perform any rituals. It was a day of rest whatever that you do you should do it for Christ. We kids were not allowed to play, do laundry, or be busy with schoolwork during the sabbath day. The only thing we will do is to spend 8 hours of the day at church and come back, pray as a family, eat and go to sleep. 

 

We were also taught to behave in certain ways for example, you should forgive a person seven times seven a day and you should normalize to love all you enemies as you love yourself. This really shaped my worldview because I didn't look to others in a different way, but we were all equal as we are all equal in the house of the Lord, it also helped me to understand that we should not judge people but be kind to everyone and show respect.

Sense of humor

7 Apr 2024, 22:46 Publicly Viewable

Sense of humor is when you are friendly and appreciate people's jokes. 

A sense of humor can foster connections and strengthen bonds among individuals within a network by creating shared experiences, enhancing communication, and promoting camaraderie. Humor often serves as an icebreaker, easing tensions and making interactions more enjoyable. People are naturally drawn to those who make them laugh, leading to increased rapport and a sense of kinship within the network. Additionally, sharing jokes or funny anecdotes can create a sense of belonging and solidarity, reinforcing social connections and fostering a supportive community within the network. For Example How I met my best friend, the girl is so shy and she likes to isolate herself but because I made it easy for her, I was so bubbly and she said I have attractive human sense of humor. She is now comfortable and tells me everything. We share jokes and go on dates, we Party together.  Our friendship is just so fun and beautiful. People would ask us how do we manage. We have been friends for 8 years now. 8 years of love, support and fun moments of cause. This friendship influences the whole community and which I'd a nice thing that sense of humor it can also lead to network kinship. How you connect with other people, how do you talk and are you using the correct and appropriate language. When I go where there's a crowd people would ask how to I manage to tolerate nonsense if mistakes happens like a person will just want to Start a fight with you and in that case I make sure I reply cool and act nonchalant. I don't give them the same vibes which is one of the things about attractive human sense of humor. In my understanding network kinship refers to the complex web of familiar relationship that exists within a society or community. When the are organizing about sharing some information that people have to gain skills about, or attending a funeral or party or whatever that unites the community. This gives the support vibes and make it easier for us to help each other. This can also be like when you not available who can be found to represent you in that particular moment. So if you're in a community or society that supports easvh other, it becomes easy for you to have a next of kin. People who knows you better so when you continue supporting each other, you character is Being reviled slowly but surely. This is all about the other hand and how much does it knows you.

Daily routine

14 Mar 2024, 17:03 Publicly Viewable

I am a usually a lazy person who enjoys doing nothing rather than taking a nap, but because i have made it this far and I have dreams to chase I'm trying by all means to be early. Since its Monday and Monday blues are tiring and I come from weekend of rest and you know it's difficult to woke up, I got waked up by the sun rays through the window. I got off bed said a little prayer just to thank the lord that I have seen another day of grace. I did my bed after I did homework outs just to maintain my stamina and fitness. I went to take a shower since I'm already prepared that I will have a long exhausting day. Here I am preparing for a class that I didn't even revise or do notes. I've procrastinated and that drags me back because I'm left behind and what worries me is I'm struggling to catch up. After I was done bathing then while I was eating, I received a call from my friend that she's waiting for me by the bust stop. I finish and go to her so we can catch the bus together since we going to the same class. After the bus dropped us along the way we were having a little chitchat on how we are holding on varsity and so on.  We went to lecture hall together and when I got there I was lost as always. What is happening is I feel like I understand in class and immediately when I get home everything just dime and shut down. After the class we went to student center and the bus arrived I went back home, back to reality pretending like I study but I don't understand there's a lot. I took a nap, a nap became a sleep i was even dreaming.